Building a Civil & Respectful Workplace: Bullying
(Psychological Harassment)

Workplace dynamics can be complex, and bullying is one of the most challenging issues to identify and resolve. Instead of being visibly aggressive, these interactions often occur behind the scenes, in subtle interactions that gradually degrade an employee’s sense of safety and self-worth.

Regardless of how it presents itself, the impact of bullying can be profound. By recognizing the signs of bullying, understanding its impact, and taking proactive steps to prevent and address harmful behaviour, we can create a healthier, more supportive work environment.

The Workplace Where is it?

The workplace extends beyond the physical office space. Bullying, harassment, discrimination, and violence can occur wherever business activities take place, including social events, conferences, parking lots, and even locations outside the workplace if the behaviour has or could have an impact on the work environment.

What is Bullying?

Workplace bullying, also known as psychological harassment, involves actions, behaviours, or comments that cause psychological harm, isolate, or demean an individual or group in a professional setting.

Though often verbal or psychological, bullying can also involve negative physical contact. It typically includes behaviour intended to intimidate, offend, degrade, or humiliate and often reflects an abuse of power through aggression.

Bullying often involves a pattern of repeated behaviour; however, a single incident can also be considered bullying, especially if it has a significant or lasting impact.

What is not Harassment or Bullying?

Not every negative interaction in the workplace counts as bullying. Giving constructive feedback, conducting performance evaluations, and taking necessary disciplinary actions, when done respectfully and fairly, are not bullying.

Examples include:

  • Offering professional criticism or guidance
  • Assigning work duties and setting expectations
  • Enforcing health and safety policies
  • Managing performance processes
 

If you aren’t sure whether a behaviour constitutes bullying, consider the “reasonable person” test: 
Would the average person find it unacceptable?

Examples of Bullying

  • Criticizing or questioning someone’s competence, work quality, or opinions in a belittling, humiliating, or demeaning manner, especially in front of others.
  • Using digital communication platforms (e.g., email, texting, social media) to insult, embarrass, bully, or tarnish a colleague’s reputation.
  • Threatening job loss or other negative consequences without justification.
  • Socially isolating a person by excluding them from activities, projects, or communications.
  • Intimidating through yelling, profanity, aggressive body language, or non-verbal gestures such as eye-rolling, rude gestures, or glaring.
  • Unfairly withholding credit for work, blocking opportunities for training, leave, or promotion, or assigning unreasonable workloads and deadlines designed to set someone up for failure.
  • Intruding on a person’s privacy by pestering, spying, stalking, or tampering with personal belongings or work equipment.
  • Repeatedly calling a colleague an insulting name or using a nickname they find offensive, either behind their back, to their face, or both.

Cyberbullying

Cyberbullying means engaging in such behaviour via the internet or other digital means. 

Examples:

  • Sending nasty, hostile or threatening emails, texts or other electronic messages directly to the victim
  • Saying derogatory things about the victim on blogs, chat boards and other social media sites
  • Doxxing, or collecting documents (docs) containing an individual’s private information and posting them online publicly
  • Starting rumours or spreading gossip online
 

While conduct like this can occur in any workplace, bullying is more likely to take place in environments that:

  • are stressful or undergo frequent changes
  • have high workloads
  • don’t have clear policies outlining acceptable behaviour

Different Types of Bullies

On average, we spend as much time with our co-workers as we do with our families throughout the week. Feeling comfortable, accepted, and safe in this group is important. 

However, some people may start to overstep boundaries – the limits people set to safeguard their physical, emotional, and mental health – and engage in inappropriate workplace behaviours.

Recognizing the different types of workplace bullies can help you protect yourself and respond effectively. Each type of bully has their own way of targeting others

Subtle bullies use quiet but hurtful methods to mess with their targets. They’re two-faced and passive-aggressive, spreading rumours to control how others see their target.

Abusive bullies constantly harass and humiliate their target in public.

Controlling bullies hold back important resources, like time, autonomy, or training, to make it harder for their target to succeed.

Raging bullies intimidate everyone around them with their out-of-control anger.

Echo bullies aren’t usually abusive themselves, but they copy bullying behaviour with their team, making things worse.

Opportunistic bullies will step on anyone to get ahead in their career.

Critic bullies tear down their targets behind closed doors, making false accusations and trying to control their self-image.

[i]Working with a Bully”, Canada Safety Council

Poisoned Workplace

When an employee experiences bullying, harassment, or threats, and no action is taken to address the behaviour, the entire workplace environment is negatively affected:

  • Increased stress levels
  • Employees feel unsafe
  • Decline in morale
  • Higher turnover rates as workers seek opportunities elsewhere
  • Increased absenteeism and diminished job performance
 

Failing to intervene sends a message to the harasser or bully that their behaviour can continue without fear of consequence.

 Bullying can have a significant impact on both individuals and the workplace.

Impact of Bullying on Individuals

For individuals, the effects may include:

  • Emotional distress, anxiety, or panic and feelings of anger, frustration, helplessness, and isolation
  • Physical symptoms such as headaches and insomnia
  • Professional consequences, such as difficulty concentrating, increased mistakes, loss of motivation, job loss, and disabilities
  • Severe outcomes, including relationship difficulties and suicidal thoughts or actions

Impact of Bullying on Workplaces:

For the organization, the effects can include:

  • Declining morale and productivity
  • Increased absenteeism and turnover Higher stress levels
  • Deterioration in workplace culture and collaboration

Statistics

55% of surveyed Canadians report being the target of workplace bullying. 

50% of targeted employees suffer from mental health-related issues. Employees coping with bullying and a toxic work environment on average take twice as much sick time as other employees. 

80% of all employees in a toxic workplace, not just those who are targeted, spend a significant amount of time and energy focused on issues related to the work environment. This takes time away from their work.[i] 

[i] “Workplace bullying deconstructed”, Rubin Thomlinson

Bullying Statistics (1)

Legal Protections Against Bullying in Canada

The law guarantees everyone the right to work in an environment free from harassment, bullying, and violence. It is equally the responsibility of all employees to help encourage and support such an environment.

Several Canadian jurisdictions explicitly address bullying in their workplace harassment and violence legislation. General duty clauses requiring safe work environments still apply in regions where bullying is not specifically defined. Furthermore, federal and provincial human rights laws prohibit harassment based on protected grounds such as race, gender, and disability, which can, in some cases, include bullying behaviour.

Employer Responsibilities

Employers are required to take proactive measures to prevent and respond to workplace bullying, including:

  • Developing clear anti-bullying, anti-harassment, and anti-violence policies
  • Providing training to all staff on these policies
  • Establishing a fair, unbiased complaint investigation process
  • Promoting a healthy work culture that prioritizes psychological safety
 
Steps for Employees Experiencing Bullying

Employees who believe they are being bullied or who witness such behaviour should take the following actions:

  • Document all incidents, including dates, times, witnesses, and locations
  • Communicate concerns to the individual responsible, if safe to do so
  • Follow the organization’s internal reporting procedures
  • Notify a supervisor or HR representative
  • Report serious threats or violence to the police if necessary
 

Employees who are targets of harassment or bullying often avoid reporting the issue because they fear:

  • creating conflict
  • being labelled a troublemaker
  • not being believed or taken seriously
  • facing negative repercussions like social isolation
  • damage to their career prospects including being passed over for promotions losing opportunities for advancement, or even their job.
 

It is important to note, that all laws addressing harassment and bullying include provisions that protect individuals from retaliation, reprisal, or threats of reprisal for those who file complaints or serve as witnesses during the investigation.

Promoting a Positive Workplace Culture

A respectful workplace benefits everyone. Both employees and employers contribute to creating a healthy, supportive environment by:

  • Acting with professionalism and courtesy
  • Considering the impact of words and actions on colleagues
  • Addressing issues early through open communication
  • Encouraging mutual respect and cooperation
 
Common Sense

Employers expect everyone in the organization to contribute to a healthy, safe, and respectful workplace by exercising common sense in all work-related situations. While this may seem straightforward, employees sometimes speak or act without considering the impact on others. It is important to take a moment to reflect on another person’s feelings or pause to calm down when feeling angry or overwhelmed.

Tips and Warning Signs:

Here are some helpful tips and warning signs to determine if your behaviour or someone else’s has crossed the line into harassment, bullying, or violence:

  • If someone asks you to stop a specific behaviour, do so immediately.
  • If your actions cause someone to cry, tremble, become visibly uncomfortable, walk away, or show any other signs of distress, you have crossed the line.
  • Ask yourself, “How would I feel if my behaviour were broadcast in the evening news?”
  • Would I behave this way if my partner or spouse were present?
  • Would I act this way towards someone who looks up to me, such as my child, niece, or nephew?
  • Does this interaction demonstrate mutual respect?
  • Am I feeling overly emotional? Is my face flushed? Do I notice an increase in my blood pressure or clenching of my hands?
 
If you answer yes to any of these questions step away and take a moment to gain composure.
 
Creating a respectful and safe workplace is a shared effort that benefits everyone. 

Bullying and psychological harassment can have serious effects on both individuals and the overall work environment, but they can be prevented and addressed with the right steps. 

Recognizing harmful behaviour, understanding its impact, and committing to proactive solutions—like clear policies, proper training, and a culture of open communication—helps create a healthier, more supportive space where employees can thrive.

[1] “Working with a Bully”, Canada Safety Council

[1] “Workplace bullying deconstructed”, Rubin Thomlinson